CARING FOR YOUR TEEN
What to do if you think your child is using drugs or alcohol
Every parent dreads the awful sinking feeling that comes from realizing your child may be in trouble. Maybe you have not actually observed the problem, but your gut is telling you that he or she might be using drugs or alcohol.

You may be feeling like you are all alone, but you are not.

Every day, approximately 4,700 American youth under age 18 try marijuana for the first time.   Every day, 7,000 kids under age 16 take their first drink.  Among youth ages 12 to 17, an estimated 10.6% are engaged in dangerous binge drinking.  Clearly, many parents are dealing with drugs and underage drinking problems and all the additional problems they create.

 
How can you tell for sure that your child is using drugs or getting in trouble with alcohol?  According to Paula Goodwin, Grundy County No Tolerance Task Force (NTTF) Coordinator, here are some signs that should lead you to take a deeper look into the situation:
  • Problems at school, including failure to do homework, falling grades, and skipping school;
  • An increase in secretive behavior, hiding certain possessions or reluctance to talk about activities and whereabouts;
  • The smell of marijuana or alcohol coming from the child or his/her room or vehicle;
  • Use of incense, room deoderant, or perfume to hide smoke or chemical odors;
  • Subtle changes in conversation with friends, particularly the use of secretive or “coded” language;
  • New friends;
  • Changes in clothing choices, such as new fascination with clothes that highlight drug or alcohol use;
  • Increase in borrowing money or problems with missing money;
  • Evidence of drug paraphernalia (pipes, rolling papers, etc.) or alcohol empties;
  • Evidence of inhaling products and accessories, such as hairspray, correction fluid, electronic dusting spray, paper bags and rags, common household products;
  • Bottles of eyedrops, which may be used to mask bloodshot eyes or dilated pupils
  • New use of mouthwash or breath mints to cover up the smell of alcohol
  • Missing prescription drugs, especially narcotics or mood stabilizers;
  • Signs of heavy use of cough syrup or other over-the-counter drugs;
  • Dramatic changes in attitude or mood;
  • Unusual physical changes, such as excessive weight loss or dramatic shift in sleeping patterns.

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It is important for parents and caregivers to act quickly to investigate and intervene when they suspect a child is getting involved with drugs or alcohol.  First, learn as much as you can.  Visit www.TheAntiDrug.com or www.freevibe.com or http://www.stopalcoholabuse.gov for information on drug and alcohol use by teens.

For more information go to:
Talk to Your Teen

For more information, contact Cathy Guzik, Breaking Free Services Coordinator at (815) 260-7902, (815) 941-0724, or Fax: (815) 941-4934.

1320 Union Street • Morris, IL • 60450 • phone 815-941-3130 • fax 815 942-5384 • www.nttf.org